After a hard one
When the conversation went sideways
You don't have to remember exactly what was said. Together gives the moment back to you, both voices held side by side.
For committed couples
Clarity from your conversations — not another quiz
Together helps committed couples understand their real communication patterns — research-backed insight, delivered like a smart friend. Record a moment, see what happened, practice the next rep.
Free to start (40 analyzed minutes/month). Couple plan when you're ready — 300 analyzed minutes/month + shared couple space.
Built on decades of couples communication research
9:41
Session · May 18
Overall climate: Mixed
Genuine moments of repair, alongside a few patterns worth revisiting together.
Horsemen
3
Repairs
2
Criticism · Minute 4
“You never actually listen to me when I'm upset.”
Alex's framing here landed as a character critique. A gentler startup could open the door wider.
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Gentle Startup — “I felt unseen when… I needed…”
Why Together
Three things that make the difference.
Insights from You
Grounded in you
Not quizzes. Not generic tips. Insight from your real conversations and moments.
Research-backed, never clinical
Smart friend energy
Decades of couples communication research — without a diagnosis or a score.
Progress over time
Built to compound
Session history and habits that show what's improving — in therapy or on your own.
Real moments
Built for the conversations
you can't quite let go of.
The one you keep having
For the topic that keeps returning
Some conversations come around again and again. Together helps you see the pattern — and points to the next small rep that might shift it.
Between sessions
A companion to couples therapy
Record between appointments. Bring specific moments — quoted and attributed — into your next session with your therapist.
Just learning to listen
Practice hearing each other better
You don't have to be in crisis. Together is for anyone trying to get more skillful at the everyday work of being close to someone.
How Together works
A proven process for clearer communication.
Five unhurried steps — from connecting as a couple to progress you can feel over time.
- 01Connect
Both partners in one shared space
Together works best when you share one relationship space — so insight and progress belong to both of you.
- 02Capture
A real moment
Bring a conversation, a check-in, or a prompt — something true, not perfect. Together captures it and waits.
- 03See
Clear insight grounded in your own words
Research-backed pattern insight that sounds like a smart friend — never a diagnosis, never a score.
- 04Practice
The next small rep
Every hard observation earns a concrete next step. Specific, small, doable — somewhere to go from here.
- 05Progress
You can feel over time
Session history and habits that compound — whether you're in therapy or leveling up on your own.
What it does
A small set of features,
held to a high bar.
Quiet, in-app recording
A single button. Visual and haptic feedback. No livestream, no broadcast — just a recording the two of you control.
Two voices, separated and named
Speaker diarization with one-tap mapping to each partner's name. Every observation downstream is attributed, never anonymous.
Specific quotes, not vague scores
Together names the exact moment — the line, the minute, the speaker — so the feedback is grounded in what actually happened.
Research-backed next steps
Every hard observation arrives with a concrete next move — a gentler startup, a repair attempt, a culture of appreciation — without a diagnosis or a score.
Progress that compounds
Session history and habits that show what's improving — so you can return weeks later and see what you've grown out of.
Private by design
Audio is sent only to transcribe, then deleted from cache. Your data is never used for training and you can erase it at any time.
The research underneath
Built on decades of
couples communication research.
Together's insight is grounded in decades of watching how couples actually talk — the patterns that deepen connection, and the ones that quietly erode it — delivered like a smart friend, never as a diagnosis or a score.
Every observation is anchored in that body of work: criticism and repair, bids for connection, and the small practices that help you turn toward each other again.
Hard patterns
- Criticism
- Contempt
- Defensiveness
- Withdrawal
The next moves
- Gentler startups
- Culture of appreciation
- Taking responsibility
- Self-soothing
Bids for connection
- Turn toward
- Turn away
- Missed bid
Progress over time
- Session history
- Habits that compound
- Clarity you can feel
From early sessions
What it feels like
to use it.
I went back and listened to a fight we’d had three days earlier. It was the first time I actually heard the bid I’d missed.
What I love is that it doesn’t tell us who was right. It tells us what was happening — by name, with the actual line — and then it gives us somewhere to go.
It feels like a thoughtful friend who was in the room with us, not a report card. That distinction matters more than I expected.
We use it now between sessions with our therapist. Bringing in a specific moment — quoted, attributed — has made everything more useful.
Reflections from prototype testers. Together is preparing for launch — full reviews will appear here once the app is in your hands.
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Progress you can feel.
If after 30 days you don't feel more clarity in how you communicate, full refund — no forms, no guilt.
Free to start — 40 analyzed minutes / month (feelings unlimited). Couple plan when you're ready — 300 analyzed minutes / month + shared couple history & Couple Insights.
