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Lasting love starts with being understood

Together helps you hear what your partner really means, and helps them hear you.

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Free to start·For iPhone

No scores. Just the moment back.

Both voices, side by side: what was said, what each of you heard, and one small thing to try next time.

Moving in togetherExample
Climate
Nervous, then excited
A moment that mattered
“I want this. I just don’t want to lose my own corner.”
What each of you heard
Maya“Maybe you’re not sure about us.”
Jordan“You want us to share a home, and you still want to feel like you.”
One thing to try next
Each of you name one thing you’re excited to share, and one thing you want to keep as yours.
Doing the dishesExample
Climate
Tense, then softer
A moment that mattered
“It’s not really the dishes. I just felt like I was doing it on my own.”
What each of you heard
Maya“You don’t notice what I do.”
Jordan“You wanted help before it piled up.”
One thing to try next
Ask for a hand early, before it turns into a list.

An example review. Names and words are illustrative.

How it works

  1. 1

    Name what you’re feeling.

    Start on your own with a few taps. It helps to know what’s going on for you before you talk.

  2. 2

    Record your conversation together.

    When you’re both ready, open Partner Record and talk it through, in the same room, in your own words.

  3. 3

    See what happened.

    A calm, neutral review of the conversation — and one thing to try next time.

Questions

Do we both need the app?
You can start on your own. Naming what you’re feeling works solo, and one phone records the conversation while you’re both in the room. Invite your partner to join on their own phone so you can both see the review.
Who can see or hear our conversation?
Other Together users can’t see your sessions. We don’t sell your personal information or use your conversations for ads. You can delete everything anytime in Settings.
What do we see after we record?
A calm review of what happened: the overall climate, a moment quoted in your own words, what each of you heard, and one thing to try next. No scores, no blame.

Ready when you both are.

Name what you’re feeling. Record the next one together.

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