After a hard one
When the conversation went sideways
You don't have to remember exactly what was said. Together gives the moment back to you, both voices held side by side.
For the conversations that matter
The space where you finally heareach other.
Record the moment when a conversation starts to go sideways. Together gives it back to you — attributed, held, and reflected through Gottman Method research. Not a verdict. A way forward.
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9:41
Session · May 18
Overall climate: Mixed
Genuine moments of repair, alongside a few patterns worth revisiting together.
Horsemen
3
Repairs
2
Criticism · Minute 4
“You never actually listen to me when I'm upset.”
Alex's framing here landed as a character critique. A gentler startup could open the door wider.
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Gentle Startup — “I felt unseen when… I needed…”
Together isn't a transcription tool.
It's the quiet room you wished you had after the conversation.
01 · Your voice
Press record
Capture a real conversation — a hard one, a tender one, the one you keep coming back to.
02 · Quiet work
Held, attributed, understood
Speakers are separated and named. Patterns are noticed. Nothing is broadcast back as a verdict.
03 · Forward motion
Something you can actually use
Specific moments, named partners, and a Gottman-grounded next step — never just a score.
Real moments
Built for the conversations
you can't quite let go of.
The one you keep having
For the topic that keeps returning
Some conversations come around again and again. Together helps you see the pattern — and points to the Gottman move that might break it.
Between sessions
A companion to couples therapy
Record between appointments. Bring specific moments — quoted and attributed — into your next session with your therapist.
Just learning to listen
Practice hearing each other better
You don't have to be in crisis. Together is for anyone trying to get more skillful at the everyday work of being close to someone.
How Together works
Slow is the pace of understanding.
Four unhurried steps — from the moment you tap record to the moment you walk away with something useful in your hand.
- 01Record
A single tap, and the room goes quiet.
Open the app, press record, and have the conversation you would have had anyway. Together captures it locally and waits.
- 02Reflect
Two voices, separated and named.
Speakers are diarized and mapped to the names you chose for each partner. You see the conversation written out — attributed, accurate, and yours to edit.
- 03Read
An analysis that sounds like a person.
Together names what happened — Four Horsemen, repair attempts, bids for connection — using actual quotes and partner names. Never clinical. Never a verdict.
- 04Repair
Every hard observation earns a next step.
Every pattern is paired with a Gottman-grounded antidote. Specific, small, doable. The point isn't to grade the conversation — it's to give you somewhere to go.
What it does
A small set of features,
held to a high bar.
Quiet, in-app recording
A single button. Visual and haptic feedback. No livestream, no broadcast — just a recording the two of you control.
Two voices, separated and named
Speaker diarization with one-tap mapping to each partner's name. Every observation downstream is attributed, never anonymous.
Specific quotes, not vague scores
Together names the exact moment — the line, the minute, the speaker — so the feedback is grounded in what actually happened.
Gottman-grounded antidotes
Every hard observation arrives with a Gottman-prescribed next move: a Gentle Startup, a repair attempt, a culture of appreciation.
A history that earns its keep
Sessions are saved on device and synced privately, so you can return to a conversation weeks later and see what you've grown out of.
Private by design
Audio is sent only to transcribe, then deleted from cache. Your data is never used for training and you can erase it at any time.
The research underneath
Built on four decades of
watching couples carefully.
Together's analysis is structured around the Gottman Method — the work of Drs. John and Julie Gottman, whose research has tracked the patterns that predict whether a relationship deepens or drifts apart.
Every observation Together makes is anchored in that body of work: the Four Horsemen, repair attempts, bids for connection, and the antidotes that come with each.
The Four Horsemen
- Criticism
- Contempt
- Defensiveness
- Stonewalling
The antidotes
- Gentle Startup
- Culture of Appreciation
- Taking Responsibility
- Self-Soothing
Bids for connection
- Turn toward
- Turn away
- Missed bid
The 5:1 ratio
- Five positive moments
- For every difficult one
- Across a healthy conversation
From early sessions
What it feels like
to use it.
I went back and listened to a fight we’d had three days earlier. It was the first time I actually heard the bid I’d missed.
What I love is that it doesn’t tell us who was right. It tells us what was happening — by name, with the actual line — and then it gives us somewhere to go.
It feels like a thoughtful friend who was in the room with us, not a report card. That distinction matters more than I expected.
We use it now between sessions with our therapist. Bringing in a specific moment — quoted, attributed — has made everything more useful.
Reflections from prototype testers. Together is preparing for launch — full reviews will appear here once the app is in your hands.
Available soon
Have the conversation.
Then have it back.
Together is preparing for launch on iOS and Android. Leave your email and we'll let you know — quietly, once — when it's ready.
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